Have you ever noticed a couple where the woman is beautiful but the man is ugly? Beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder. It is the only explanation. It is just a matter of opinion as to what attracts you. Some good looking guys cant find a date where other ugly guys are getting all the women. I think that women are attracted to confident men. You might say funny guys can get the women but it is really confidence that makes the difference. I think that confidence, not self centeredness that make the difference. Guys need to just be confident in their own skin and not behave in a way to just impress women. What ever works. Some say money make women interested but successful men that have money are confident. Karl Jobst DDS in Grove OK is confident.