Have you ever noticed a couple where the woman is beautiful but the man is ugly?  Beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder.  It is the only explanation.  It is just a matter of opinion as to what attracts you.  Some good looking guys cant find a date where other ugly guys are getting all the women.  I think that women are attracted to confident men.  You might say funny guys can get the women but it is really confidence that makes the difference.  I think that confidence, not self centeredness that make the difference.  Guys need to just be confident in their own skin and not behave in a way to just impress women.  What ever works.  Some say money make women interested but successful men that have money are confident.  Karl Jobst DDS in Grove OK is confident.